LIFE IN MOROCCO: RAMADAN

Posted: September 14, 2007 in Living in Morocco
 
 
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LIFE IN MOROCCO
A Journey of Discovery
 
 
      


 
Dear Readers,
 
Since I have not been in Morocco for a while, I have not written
much about life in this beautiful country. Therefore, I have decided
to repost an article I wrote for the International Press Association
in honor of the holiest of Muslim holidays, Ramadan.
This year Ramadan coincides with the Jewish High Holidays,
so to all of my Jewish and Muslim friends and readers around
the globe…BONNE FETE! I am thinking about all of
you during this blessed month.  PEACE!

 
WHAT IS RAMADAN?
by
Ron Modro
 
International Press Association
copyright 2006

What is Ramadan? That is a question I had asked myself many times
in the last year. Due to the somewhat closed nature of the Islamic religion,
very few Americans actually know what this most holy of Muslim holidays
is really about. So I decided to make the 35 kilometer trip from the
Ourika Valley into the City of Marrakech, to spend some time there
and really get to know the place.
 
I must admit, I have not had an easy time of adjusting to the slower
and sometimes frustrating way of business in Morocco. I needed to
be in this city to figure out my place in it. The thought that kept coming
to my mind as I strolled through the
streets; "What is this journey really all about for me?"
 
I had walked through the tiny streets with all of their colorful trinkets,
rugs and blankets, not really focusing on anything in particular, but lost
in a world of thought. All the while, I was interacting and seeing things
in a different light. It was a strange moment of revelation that I was
here and this was my new world. I had left behind all the trappings
of a modern western life. In a way, America will always be my home,
but I am now in a new place where everything I knew has changed.
 
I would not say that my mood was melancholy, but rather it was a mood
of atonishment. I had actually left my world behind. I decided then, to
stop at a cafe to have a strong cup of Moroccan coffee.
 
As I sat there remembering why I had come here, a man slid his chair up
next to me. He began:
 
"Hello." He said in English.
 
"Bonjour." I replied.
 
"Oh, you are French?"
 
"Non."
 
"English?"
 
"Non, American."
 
"American? We do not get many Americans here anymore!"
 
"Oui, Je sais (I know)."
 
"Bienvenue (welcome) American! We are happy to have you here in
Morocco. You look like you could use some company."
 
"Non, Merci." I replied, thinking I was being picked up as a tourist
looking for a guide.
 
"Non, Monsieur – I can tell you need a friend. Let us have some tea
and, let us talk."
 
"Oui, d’accord (ok) – Sidi! Encore de The, s’il vous plait." I called to
the waiter.
 
"Shuhkran (thank you). May I join you?" he said to me.
 
Oui, bien sur (of course)."
 
He twirled his chair around and sat with both elbows resting on the table
and said to me, his tongue twisting his "R’s" like corkscrew macaroni: "So,
tell me my friend, what you are thinking about over here all by yourself."
 
"Just getting used to Morocco. It is very different than what I am
accustomed to."
 
"You do not like Morocco, my friend?"
 
"Oh no. I love Morocco. It is just different from the way I grew up. I
used to live in Los Angeles before I moved here."
 
"You live in Morocco?" he said with complete astonishment. "You are
Marakchi?"
 
"Oui, maintenant! (yes, now)"
 
"Why you move to Morocco, my friend?"
 
"Just to do something different, I guess. Needed a change."
 
I was not giving any hints to my life here. I suppose, I was still having
trouble letting this world in. It is a part of life in Los Angeles
(and the States in general), that everyone is suspect until you get to
know him or her well. It is a hard habit to break once it has been
instilled in you. However, I was willing to talk to this man, who told me
his name is Karim.
 
Karim is a man of medium height, dark, jet-black hair, drawn face with
a serious dental issue, nevertheless, he seemed nice enough, so I was
actually grateful for the company.
 
We discussed life in Los Angeles, New York and Morocco.
Finally, I said; “Karim let me ask you something.”

“Yes, my friend, anything.”

Mind you, this conversation is happening in three different languages.

Neither of us speaks the others language well, so we were piecing this
entire conversation together in French, Arabic, and American English.

“What do you think of all the changes happening in Morocco?”

“I understand, my friend. The western influence. You are wondering if we

accept it. Insha’llah (If God wills it!)”

“Insha’llah!”

“America is a great country, non? We do not get many American’s here.

Why?” He inquired honestly.

I thought for a moment and finally all I could really think to say was;

“They are afraid of Islam I suppose. What is happening in the world today, Karim?
My country is at war with what they believe to be radical Islam. I have to tell you,
I was a little worried about coming here – but I wanted to see for myself. Now I
see differently, but it is a bit hard for me at times. Everything I knew has
changed.”

“Yes, I understand, my friend.”

‘It is taking me time to let go of the ways of my old life, and embrace this new life.

How do I fit in here?” I said, feeling a bit apologetic for dropping that little
nutcracker on him. “Sorry, you asked what was on my mind.”

‘Non, Non! Mon ami! I am glad you asked that question.” He paused a moment to

collect his thoughts, I suppose. Then continued; “Let me tell you, my friend.
You are my friend, right? (I nodded politely) Good. Good. Islam is about faith.
There is no difference between you and me, the tourist and the Moroccan, there
is no difference, between those born here and those who choose to call it home.
There is only religion that makes us different. We do not have to be this way.
We can live together. True Islam teaches hospitality to everyone. Therefore,
my friend, you are welcome here. It does not matter if you are American.
You are here. You must adapt to our ways of thinking……..yes, and with that,
you bring something new to us as well. It will take time, but it will happen
for you. You will find your place”       “Insha’llah! (If God wills it).”

I thought to myself for a moment……….Then it dawned on me; “Is that what

Islam is really about (from a strictly outsiders point of view)? There is one God.
He is Almighty. He created the Heavens and the Earth, and if you trust in God,
everything is in his/her hands (being PC for you folks out there) to
provide…….in a word; Insha’llah!"

“Exactly, my friend!” Karim replied with great enthusiasm. “You will find your

place here, not to worry.

Karim and I sat for a while longer, just content to sit and watch as life in

Marrakech passed before us. I am not sure how long we sat there. We finished
our tea and after a while Karim said to me; “Well, thank you my friend. It is
time for me to go, but I hope I will see you again very soon. Morocco is
your home now. S’lama! (Good-bye)”

We shook hands and parted ways. I paid my bill and began the long walk back

to the car, with plenty of time to think about our conversation.

It hit me about two streets away from the café; “In God We Trust” the motto of

the United States, which is emblazoned across all of our currency, is exactly the
same idea as Islam……giving over control to divine providence. “Insha’llah!”

Which if you really think about it, all comes from the same source. Nearly

every single religion on this planet follows this idea, philosophy, or theology.
However, do we trust God…. that he/she is right (if God is either
Masculine or Feminine)? So, if we all trust in God, why are we fighting – Over
whose god is the right God? What if we are all right about God, and he/she
is all of those things that we share in common – and it is a lot more than
many people may think.

What if God “IS” the unbelievable diversity that we have on this planet?

“Insha’llah!”

I learned that Ramadan is about getting closer to the creator. One must try

harder not to sin against God and against his fellow man, reflecting on all
that is good, and the blessings we have in our lives.

It is much like Easter for Christians, or Yom Kippur for Jews. Getting closer

to God to see the blessings that have been given to us.

I realized that I have been blessed with the opportunity to see the world

and to share that experience with those around me. Even with all of the
difficulties in adjusting, the truth remains. I am blessed to be here and to see
the world that the Creator has given to us. I may not always handle the
changes or differences well, but the fact that I am here, tells me I am supposed
to be right where I am at this moment in time.

This is what Ramadan has come to mean to me.

 
The blessing for me is………… Knowledge. Insha’llah!
 
 
 
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Comments
  1. stasenjka says:

    Ron, amazing! No comment!
    The blessing for me is to read your blog today!!!
     
    We will meet for sure, Inch\’allah! :)

  2. elana says:

     I\’ve called you a f*cking rockstar so many times, the words have lost all meaning…but it\’s true.
     
    Knowing you is a blessing I\’m forever indebted to someone/something for.
     
    *smooches*
     
     

  3. VENTL8R says:

    I always like seeing bumper stickers that say, "God is too large for one religion."  I believe that God doesn\’t care how we pray to Him or under what name we pray to Him.  All He wants is our hearts.  That\’s it.
     
    Seems pretty simple to me.

  4. Susan A. says:

    Ron, I hope you\’re being blessed wherever you are at this moment.  You\’ll NEVER know how timely this particular blog is for me.  I\’m struggling with all these same issues for myself, and it was almost as if I was sitting at that small cafe table with you and Karim.  Mesmerizing!!!!  More than anything I hope to see people come to embrace each other in the realization that there\’s only ONE God, but we each see Him/Her in our own way — and that\’s okay!  You\’re a treasure, and you take care of yourself.  Love and hugs from the U.S. ~ Anita 

  5. elana says:

    It\’s ok if you only want to come to my blog to ogle the pictures..you don\’t have to pretend you\’re there to see me ;o)I SO need to update, but haven\’t had the time.  Perhaps a photo essay on the adventures in fingerpainting is in order?  I think so.  Hey..I know what keeps people coming back to my blog..it\’s the cute boys I feature from time to time.  May as well give the public what they want, right?  Guess that means I have to feature you at some point, huh? ;o)*sigh*Back to work I go…

  6. elana says:

     FYI:
     
    "Those" pictures are being saved for Xmas cards.  Hope you don\’t mind ;o)
     
    (Actually, they\’re off my hard drive now, so no worries…though there was one I couldn\’t quite part with…)

  7. Theresa says:

    Wonderful idea to re-post this honey.  Knowledge is indeed power! 
     
    Love,
    Theresa 

  8. elana says:

    Mission : Possibilities
    I
    chose you as one of my friends that I wanted to visit and tell you why
    I like you. So…in other words, get your butt over to my space and read the warm fuzziness I left for you.  I have come to the conclusion that anyone who "meets" you falls head over heels, madly in love with you and then spend the rest of their lives completely smitten with you…or is that just me?  ;o)Hope you\’re doing well.  E-mail me or something, would ya?

  9. Jungle Mama says:

    Wonderful.  How completely I can relate . . .  Blessings to you, Ron!  Thinking of you. 

  10. elana says:

    …and because I\’m truly living up to my title of "Slacker Princess" today, here\’s a few quotes that you should really think about adding to your wall:-I must admit that I personally measure success in
    terms of the contributions an individual makes to her or his fellow
    human beings. 
    - Margaret Mead-

    Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful,
    committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it\’s the only thing
    that ever has.
    - Margaret Mead-One is not born a genius, one becomes a genius. – Simone de Beauvoir-Each friend represents a world in us, a world
    possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting
    that a new world is born. – Anais NinThere..that should "up" the estrogen content in here…at least from a quotation perspective.  I heart you.E.

  11. elana says:

    So I dunno what is ticking me off more – the stupid time difference between us, or MSN not allowing "offline messaging", cuz I swear I\’ve been trying to at least leave you little "Hellos" every day..in the hopes that you might be lurking in the shadows and then we can start chatting, but alas…it\’s not meant to be. <sighs heavily>
     
    Is it weird that I miss you even though we\’ve never "met"?  Meh…whatever.
     
    You rock my black-and-red-striped-with-monkeys-on-them-socks!
     
    E
    xXx 

  12. Ahmed says:

        Hello man, perfect work actually. What can I say…
    But I thought you\’re interested in the Cultural Evolution of the Human Being, so you might be interested in my latest blog: The Intellectualism Crescendo: http://ahmedzidan.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!F79ADBDF8404CEA1!1400.entry 
    I hope you can visit my page soon, and keep on the nice work, bro…
    Cheers!Sir Zidan

  13. Theresa says:

    The video was fantastic Ron…good job sweetie!!  It really made me feel like I was there!  Seriously…Well done!  I forgot how much I loved that song too!  So scary that this song is still relevant today. 
     
    I saw "Two Days in Paris" las night…great film…check it out when you can!!!
     
    Love ya!
    Theresa

  14. ♥נυℓιє♥ says:

    Hello Ron i just came across your space and i also love Morocco so much, i spent 3 month\’s there with friends and i went to lots citys i also have been to Marrakech its an amazing city and i hope that one day i can go back, i also was there during Ramadan and i did fast to, i am from England but now i live in Netherlands but a piece of my heart will always be in Morocco ((knuffels))

  15. Shirley Jean says:

    Hello Ron
    I just came across your space and read your blog "WHAT IS RAMADAN?"  I so wish the world would read it.  I have a dear friend who is Muslim, he lives in Turkey, and what most  Americans think about Muslims is wrong.  I enjoyed your space.
    Take care
    Shirley

  16. Born says:

    hey there Ron!! just dropped by t o say hello. youve not posted for a long long time. whats up . i hope everything is alright in your world. see you around ron!!

  17. FireflyGirl says:

    Thank you for this beautiful insight! 

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